ALR so i was already at rock bottom as of recent and this might be the final blow idk
Historically i've always been to much of an idiot in taking hints from females;
For example all of my exes have told me that before i made a move on them it took hella long since i'm too nd to take hints or i just overthink too much idk
Recently a new girl has popped up into my life (ofc when everything has gone to shit, such a good timing) and well i kind of wasn't sure if i liked her.
Her (female) friends who are also my friends have been bugging me for the past month or so to make a move and that she's into me. Idk why but i never thought of it like that. Last week I took one of my best friends (from a different friend group) to go out for drinks with said girl and our friend group. Was having some good interactions with her, but whenever I go out for drinks and i get a bit tipsy / drunk i'd rather just go do crazy shit with my boys. Anyway so later that night SHE KISSED MY BEST FRIEND. When I told me it did not really hit me and the days after I still did not care.
Objectively seen I'd say me and my best friend are in the same tier lookswise. Only thing is he just does shit and doesn't overthink stuff. Also he's definitely more NT than I am. After a couple of days it just had me overthinking abt how I let this happen to me and why i'm apparently not enough.
After that her friends still kept bugging me about making a move. They told me she kissed my best friend to make me jealous. I said even if that was the
truth I could never take an L this big and still make a move on her.
Well last friday I was out again with her and her friends. I got drunk, thought fuck it, took her home and we slept together. We talked abt all sorts of stuff and shit felt really good. She wants to keep seeing me. Now I'm wondering if I should just take the L and keep going or call things off...
Really don't care that much if you guys read this shit. I just had to get this off my chest. Maybe you can take as a lesson for this to think less and just go for shit. Feel free to laugh at me or leave me some advice lol
Historically i've always been to much of an idiot in taking hints from females;
For example all of my exes have told me that before i made a move on them it took hella long since i'm too nd to take hints or i just overthink too much idk
Recently a new girl has popped up into my life (ofc when everything has gone to shit, such a good timing) and well i kind of wasn't sure if i liked her.
Her (female) friends who are also my friends have been bugging me for the past month or so to make a move and that she's into me. Idk why but i never thought of it like that. Last week I took one of my best friends (from a different friend group) to go out for drinks with said girl and our friend group. Was having some good interactions with her, but whenever I go out for drinks and i get a bit tipsy / drunk i'd rather just go do crazy shit with my boys. Anyway so later that night SHE KISSED MY BEST FRIEND. When I told me it did not really hit me and the days after I still did not care.
Objectively seen I'd say me and my best friend are in the same tier lookswise. Only thing is he just does shit and doesn't overthink stuff. Also he's definitely more NT than I am. After a couple of days it just had me overthinking abt how I let this happen to me and why i'm apparently not enough.
After that her friends still kept bugging me about making a move. They told me she kissed my best friend to make me jealous. I said even if that was the
truth I could never take an L this big and still make a move on her.
Well last friday I was out again with her and her friends. I got drunk, thought fuck it, took her home and we slept together. We talked abt all sorts of stuff and shit felt really good. She wants to keep seeing me. Now I'm wondering if I should just take the L and keep going or call things off...
Really don't care that much if you guys read this shit. I just had to get this off my chest. Maybe you can take as a lesson for this to think less and just go for shit. Feel free to laugh at me or leave me some advice lol
