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Is there genuinely a way to get girls if you’re ND?

Papabadge

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This question may seem stupid but I feel like my life is over because of my personality. I’m not bad looking a bit short for my age but not by much and have a bit of acne. I’m not a loser and talk to girls and they talk to me (willingly lol) but I always come off as awkward or avoiding. I see some of my friends who arguably look worse than me “get girls” but It genuinely seems impossible for me. Even when women have liked me and I knew that they liked me I always sell by ignoring them. I can’t tell if this is some sort of mental issue. Any advice?
 

SkazziTron

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This question may seem stupid but I feel like my life is over because of my personality. I’m not bad looking a bit short for my age but not by much and have a bit of acne. I’m not a loser and talk to girls and they talk to me (willingly lol) but I always come off as awkward or avoiding. I see some of my friends who arguably look worse than me “get girls” but It genuinely seems impossible for me. Even when women have liked me and I knew that they liked me I always sell by ignoring them. I can’t tell if this is some sort of mental issue. Any advice?
 

SkazziTron

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This question may seem stupid but I feel like my life is over because of my personality. I’m not bad looking a bit short for my age but not by much and have a bit of acne. I’m not a loser and talk to girls and they talk to me (willingly lol) but I always come off as awkward or avoiding. I see some of my friends who arguably look worse than me “get girls” but It genuinely seems impossible for me. Even when women have liked me and I knew that they liked me I always sell by ignoring them. I can’t tell if this is some sort of mental issue. Any advice?
Honestly idk. Being nd is a hard thing to cope with but if u look good enough it doesn’t matter, so just keep ascending bro
 

WhitePussySlayer

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This question may seem stupid but I feel like my life is over because of my personality. I’m not bad looking a bit short for my age but not by much and have a bit of acne. I’m not a loser and talk to girls and they talk to me (willingly lol) but I always come off as awkward or avoiding. I see some of my friends who arguably look worse than me “get girls” but It genuinely seems impossible for me. Even when women have liked me and I knew that they liked me I always sell by ignoring them. I can’t tell if this is some sort of mental issue. Any advice?
If ur htn+ girls don’t care if ur nd
 

light

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This question may seem stupid but I feel like my life is over because of my personality. I’m not bad looking a bit short for my age but not by much and have a bit of acne. I’m not a loser and talk to girls and they talk to me (willingly lol) but I always come off as awkward or avoiding. I see some of my friends who arguably look worse than me “get girls” but It genuinely seems impossible for me. Even when women have liked me and I knew that they liked me I always sell by ignoring them. I can’t tell if this is some sort of mental issue. Any advice?
yr prob young, its normal to be awkward af when talking to them, all teens are (i am too lol). all I'll stay is, it takes time. you need to grow as a person and become more confidence in yourself. not how you talk but in YOURSELF, yourself only bro. But confidence only comes from growth of the character and mind. as well having that self awareness to understand situations and others. just dont get to focused on girls u may be forcing it to much in your head
 

SQL2VD

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Yes, I'm lmtn at best and I've got a girlfriend who is lhtb, just short of a looksmatch
 
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This question may seem stupid but I feel like my life is over because of my personality. I’m not bad looking a bit short for my age but not by much and have a bit of acne. I’m not a loser and talk to girls and they talk to me (willingly lol) but I always come off as awkward or avoiding. I see some of my friends who arguably look worse than me “get girls” but It genuinely seems impossible for me. Even when women have liked me and I knew that they liked me I always sell by ignoring them. I can’t tell if this is some sort of mental issue. Any advice?
Phenibut and pregabalin
 
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