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Discussion Is it hard for you to be sensitive?
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I think I would never have a good relationship because I try to avoid almost everyone cuz I think that they’ll make me hurt or I won’t give them comfort they desire. It is hard for me to live as sensitive ND who larps as NT but still afraid of getting to relationship. I want to hear your experience and your opinion on this topic. :crying:
 

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i also think that i will get hurt in all relationships however i fake my emotions and trust honestly everything, i have had about 3 relationships in 25 it all went the same i was with them until i wasnt, i just learned to always be one step out of the rs, that way u wont get hurt that bad, eitherway there is no reason not to do this even lmao u are happy and once its over ur not deppressed
 
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i also think that i will get hurt in all relationships however i fake my emotions and trust honestly everything, i have had about 3 relationships in 25 it all went the same i was with them until i wasnt, i just learned to always be one step out of the rs, that way u wont get hurt that bad, eitherway there is no reason not to do this even lmao u are happy and once its over ur not deppressed
mirin this bro
 

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I used to be terrified of relationships and getting hurt but foids legit come and go so just enjoy the ride
 

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No I dont bond enough
 

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I think I would never have a good relationship because I try to avoid almost everyone cuz I think that they’ll make me hurt or I won’t give them comfort they desire. It is hard for me to live as sensitive ND who larps as NT but still afraid of getting to relationship. I want to hear your experience and your opinion on this topic. :crying:
the thing i want most is to be able to be sensitive around a girl who loves me. not that i have any expereince in relationships with women but im just generally distrusting of everyone because any piece of my authentic self i tell people ab, i worry that they will expose it to the world or that they will use it against me or something like that. when i interact with ppl, its like the cops saying "everything you say can and will be used against you" ive been maladaptive daydreaming and talking to myself for years because i couldnt bring myself to talk about my problems with people. even when i went to a therapist i lied about my actual problems and she knew to:cage: i remember about 2 months into our sessions she told me: "youre not telling me something" and i just denied it. unsurprisingly, therapy didnt solve any of my problems because i worried that she would tell my parents immediately
 
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the thing i want most is to be able to be sensitive around a girl who loves me. not that i have any expereince in relationships with women but im just generally distrusting of everyone because any piece of my authentic self i tell people ab, i worry that they will expose it to the world or that they will use it against me or something like that. when i interact with ppl, its like the cops saying "everything you say can and will be used against you" ive been maladaptive daydreaming and talking to myself for years because i couldnt bring myself to talk about my problems with people. even when i went to a therapist i lied about my actual problems and she knew to:cage: i remember about 2 months into our sessions she told me: "youre not telling me something" and i just denied it. unsurprisingly, therapy didnt solve any of my problems because i worried that she would tell my parents immediately
you’re not alone bro♥️♥️
 

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real, i dont feel a lot of emotions anymore
(that sounded cringe srry)
 

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