[chadpreet]

bro I’m so fucking done for bro. I have a lot of trouble with communication with random people. I have 3-4 friends who I stay close with and even with them I still have trouble. I’m done for bro. It doesent matter how good u look if u can’t communicate for shit bro. I just hope I get approached my people. And I just don’t wanna regret making friends with dumbasses. So I’ll probably not have friends for a few months. But I’m glad I’ll see new faces and new girls.

Pray for me

 

[pedroiisboa]

it happens broski, keep it up, are you trying to improve the way that you communicate or nah ?

 

[Idec]

I have noone and I am ok, is this mental illness?

 

[chadpreet]

it happens broski, keep it up, are you trying to improve the way that you communicate or nah ?

I’ve been going to a psychologist to help me with my depression but I don’t know how to improve my social skills. Last year I used to be outgoing but ever since the summer I’ve felt worse and worse

 

[chadpreet]

I have noone and I am ok, is this mental illness?

If you are fine with it I think you don’t need to worry

 

[pedroiisboa]

I’ve been going to a psychologist to help me with my depression but I don’t know how to improve my social skills. Last year I used to be outgoing but ever since the summer I’ve felt worse and worse

thats good bro, try to talk with your psychologist about it too, what problem do you face when you are trying to communicate with someone ?

 

[chadpreet]

thats good bro, try to talk with your psychologist about it too, what problem do you face when you are trying to communicate with someone ?

I deadass just can’t communicate I stutter and shake and literally make everything awkward as fuck

 

[pedroiisboa]

I deadass just can’t communicate I stutter and shake and literally make everything awkward as fuck

but can you understand why do you feel that way ?

 

[pedroiisboa]

I have noone and I am ok, is this mental illness?

nah, if you are ok with it its good

 

[chadpreet]

but can you understand why do you feel that way ?

Mostly just thinking about being judged

 

[Idec]

nah, if you are ok with it its good

I do want irl friends and a gf but I am fine with what I have because I believe I deserve nothing

 

[pedroiisboa]

Mostly just thinking about being judged

i feel the exact same way sometimes bro, but they really dont care, they almost never remember the full interaction. Being in silence for sum minutes, being akward, its normal, nobody will jugde you for that

 

[pedroiisboa]

I do want irl friends and a gf but I am fine with what I have because I believe I deserve nothing

ye thats bad, dont say that broski

 

[Osteotomy]

if ur struggling now moving would probably only make it worse and ur anxiety worse

also u cant expect people to approach u, they're pretty much the same way

most people just mind their business and go about their day without even noticing u. and most people are worried about themselves, not about how YOU look so theres literally no reason to be so concerned.

 

[pedroiisboa]

if ur struggling now moving would probably only make it worse and ur anxiety worse

also u cant expect people to approach u, they're pretty much the same way

most people just mind their business and go about their day without even noticing u. and most people are worried about themselves, not about how YOU look so theres literally no reason to be so concerned.

not at all, starting from zero is always a good option bro, he just need to understand and try to solve what is happening to him when he talks with others

 

[Osteotomy]

not at all, starting from zero is always a good option bro, he just need to understand and try to solve what is happening to him when he talks with others

it depends on the situation and he didnt give much context. but i guarantee its mainly just a confidence problem, ive been through this exact phase.

when i started to become more confident about myself i noticed i became less nervous and became more outgoing around other people, and i find myself making a lot better eye contact now than before.

ive been through therapy and everything before as well, nothing worked but i was able to solve it myself and have helped a few others do the same actually lol

 

[pedroiisboa]

it depends on the situation and he didnt give much context. but i guarantee its mainly just a confidence problem, ive been through this exact phase.

when i started to become more confident about myself i noticed i became less nervous and became more outgoing around other people, and i find myself making a lot better eye contact now than before.

ive been through therapy and everything before as well, nothing worked but i was able to solve it myself and have helped a few others do the same actually lol

yeah, but saying that moving would get him worse is so wrong, its actually a good thing. Of course he cant do it always and he has to face that problem, and chadpreet , dont way for people to approach you, it wont help

 

[chadpreet]

yeah, but saying that moving would get him worse is so wrong, its actually a good thing. Of course he cant do it always and he has to face that problem, and chadpreet , dont way for people to approach you, it wont help

Thanks giys

 

[Gigel]

new state or new country ?

 

[Brian]

bro I’m so fucking done for bro. I have a lot of trouble with communication with random people. I have 3-4 friends who I stay close with and even with them I still have trouble. I’m done for bro. It doesent matter how good u look if u can’t communicate for shit bro. I just hope I get approached my people. And I just don’t wanna regret making friends with dumbasses. So I’ll probably not have friends for a few months. But I’m glad I’ll see new faces and new girls.

Pray for me

I don't have any friends. But now, I'll just go outside and sit alone because ion wanna talk to people. I understand you. It fucks you up fr. I've been trying to find some friends but can't but I think, I will do it after exams, like even my classmates are so lowiq and I don't communicate with them. But sometimes it hits so hard bro, like u super sad you don't have anyone to talk to like DAMN bro.

 

[chadpreet]

I don't have any friends. But now, I'll just go outside and sit alone because ion wanna talk to people. I understand you. It fucks you up fr. I've been trying to find some friends but can't but I think, I will do it after exams, like even my classmates are so lowiq and I don't communicate with them. But sometimes it hits so hard bro, like u super sad you don't have anyone to talk to like DAMN bro.

These people feel like drones. They are so unoriginal bro. They don’t have anything interesting about them

 

[chadpreet]

new state or new country ?

Same state moving farther away to a better area hopefully

 

[Gigel]

Same state moving farther away to a better area hopefully

bros movin to da hood

 

[chadpreet]

bros movin to da hood

Moving out of it hopefully. I hate being in this ghetto ass school