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Theory Hypergamy is lie (6 Viewers)

Theory Hypergamy is lie

Amrst

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here is my brief explanation why I think hypergamy is lie

The Paradox:
So Even when men prioritize looks and women prioritize status, the end result is almost always homogamy (matching with your own tier)

The Math: If a high status man (Tier 1) marries a lower-status but highly attractive woman (Tier 2 status, Tier 1 looks), he has effectively "married down" in status and married up in looks.

The Catch: This means a high-status woman (Tier 1) also has to marry down to a man who is lower in status but has higher physical appeal to match her own attractiveness.

So even if the women has lower status but higher looks : her overall value and combined desirability would equal to the overall values of the man.

This would eliminate hypergamy and would efficiently create homogamy

Let me know what yall think
 

realhmtn

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Monogamy is only a thing in big cities. Outside of that, most couples are a perfect looksmatch.
 

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here is my brief explanation why I think hypergamy is lie

The Paradox:
So Even when men prioritize looks and women prioritize status, the end result is almost always homogamy (matching with your own tier)

The Math: If a high status man (Tier 1) marries a lower-status but highly attractive woman (Tier 2 status, Tier 1 looks), he has effectively "married down" in status and married up in looks.

The Catch: This means a high-status woman (Tier 1) also has to marry down to a man who is lower in status but has higher physical appeal to match her own attractiveness.

So even if the women has lower status but higher looks : her overall value and combined desirability would equal to the overall values of the man.

This would eliminate hypergamy and would efficiently create homogamy

Let me know what yall think
 

Veridic

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here is my brief explanation why I think hypergamy is lie

The Paradox:
So Even when men prioritize looks and women prioritize status, the end result is almost always homogamy (matching with your own tier)

The Math: If a high status man (Tier 1) marries a lower-status but highly attractive woman (Tier 2 status, Tier 1 looks), he has effectively "married down" in status and married up in looks.

The Catch: This means a high-status woman (Tier 1) also has to marry down to a man who is lower in status but has higher physical appeal to match her own attractiveness.

So even if the women has lower status but higher looks : her overall value and combined desirability would equal to the overall values of the man.

This would eliminate hypergamy and would efficiently create homogamy

Let me know what yall think
I suggest you go and do some research on what hypergamy actually is, this is a completely incorrect interpretation
 
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bro what? hypergamy only occurs when dating

women marry the beta nerds once they are done getting fucked by chads
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