ced
ㅤ
- Joined
- Jun 30, 2026
- Posts
- 2,200
- Reputation
- 5,948
i've started noticing this way more since moving schools
i never really paid attention to it before but once you start actually watching how girls behave around different guys the difference is pretty obvious
the first thing i've noticed is the staring
not even just girls i know either. you'll catch them looking at you from across the room, look away, then catch them again later
today in math i caught one girl staring at me and then her friend was doing the exact same thing. neither of them had any reason to be looking over at me either
another thing i've noticed is how girls suddenly become way more aware of themselves when you're around
fixing their hair, adjusting their clothes, checking themselves in their phone camera etc
obviously that doesn't automatically mean anything but when the same girl keeps doing it whenever you're nearby it's hard not to notice
the friend thing is probably the funniest one
you'll be talking to a girl and her friend is just sitting there watching the entire interaction
or i'll walk past and they'll both look at me, say something to each other and start laughing
you can tell sometimes when her friends already know who you are even though you've never spoken to them
then there's the girls who actually try to get your attention without making it obvious
standing nearby, joining conversations they're not really part of, asking some completely unnecessary question
it's never anything crazy either
it's always some tiny excuse to interact
and i've noticed girls don't all react the same way either
some become way more confident and talkative
others become awkward as fuck and barely say anything
so i don't really think there's one universal “sign” that a girl finds you attractive
it's more about how she acts around you compared to everyone else
if she's staring at you repeatedly, her friends are aware of you, she keeps ending up around you and she's noticeably different when you're there
that's when i'd actually start paying attention
one random glance doesn't mean shit
patterns do
studies
2.Croes et al. (2020), “The role of eye-contact in the development of romantic attraction”
1.Samara et al. (2022), “Can third-party observers detect attraction in others based on subtle nonverbal cues?”
3.Moreland & Beach (1992), “Exposure effects in the classroom: The development of affinity among students”
4.Wright & Sinclair (2012), “Pulling the strings: Effects of friend and parent opinions on dating choices”
one of my tiktok bhais made this of me idek why
lowk cuck behaviour but thought i should add it jfl
~ced
i never really paid attention to it before but once you start actually watching how girls behave around different guys the difference is pretty obvious
the first thing i've noticed is the staring
not even just girls i know either. you'll catch them looking at you from across the room, look away, then catch them again later
today in math i caught one girl staring at me and then her friend was doing the exact same thing. neither of them had any reason to be looking over at me either
another thing i've noticed is how girls suddenly become way more aware of themselves when you're around
fixing their hair, adjusting their clothes, checking themselves in their phone camera etc
obviously that doesn't automatically mean anything but when the same girl keeps doing it whenever you're nearby it's hard not to notice
the friend thing is probably the funniest one
you'll be talking to a girl and her friend is just sitting there watching the entire interaction
or i'll walk past and they'll both look at me, say something to each other and start laughing
you can tell sometimes when her friends already know who you are even though you've never spoken to them
then there's the girls who actually try to get your attention without making it obvious
standing nearby, joining conversations they're not really part of, asking some completely unnecessary question
it's never anything crazy either
it's always some tiny excuse to interact
and i've noticed girls don't all react the same way either
some become way more confident and talkative
others become awkward as fuck and barely say anything
so i don't really think there's one universal “sign” that a girl finds you attractive
it's more about how she acts around you compared to everyone else
if she's staring at you repeatedly, her friends are aware of you, she keeps ending up around you and she's noticeably different when you're there
that's when i'd actually start paying attention
one random glance doesn't mean shit
patterns do
studies
2.Croes et al. (2020), “The role of eye-contact in the development of romantic attraction”
1.Samara et al. (2022), “Can third-party observers detect attraction in others based on subtle nonverbal cues?”
3.Moreland & Beach (1992), “Exposure effects in the classroom: The development of affinity among students”
4.Wright & Sinclair (2012), “Pulling the strings: Effects of friend and parent opinions on dating choices”
one of my tiktok bhais made this of me idek why
lowk cuck behaviour but thought i should add it jfl
~ced

