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Im 15M and im 5'8 im one of the tallest in my class I've been looksmaxxing since I was 12 and I just wanna know why I dont get the attention or even friends I worked so hard to get, I've wasted so much time on myself to just get the slightest feeling that I actually exist and now I feel like a look good after all of this pain, But still no attention from girls or even classmates its the same exact same as before not looksmaxxing and maybe worse I dont know what to do, Please if anyone had went through this before tell me your experience.
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Ight so tbh I feel like I overthink alot and I have extreme anxiety abt how people will think about me and like idk what to do atp I feel like since I knew what looksmaxxing is it broke how I think but helped my looks thats it
Nigga don’t stress it legit say and do what you want if you overthink ur pussy ass is never going to do anything.
 

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Scaredy cat, I also am one but sometimes u just gotta try to talk, even if u say shit, girls might continue the convo. If they continue (and are outgoing in them convos) it's a sign that signal that they appreciate u, continue and figure out if they like u or not.
(super hard, never knew if a girl liked me maybe Yes maybe not idk but I do get a lot of appreciation)
 

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Scaredy cat, I also am one but sometimes u just gotta try to talk, even if u say shit, girls might continue the convo. If they continue it's a open goal that signal that they appreciate u, continue and figure out if they like u or not.
(super hard, never knew if a girl liked me maybe Yes maybe not idk but I do get a lot of appreciation)
Lmaoo ur right tbh but Idk how to talk when they or i approach them but I remember at a point when I looked really good like it was my prime in 2023 8 girls from my class had a crush on me and they talked to me everyday but I STILL LOOK THE SAME OR EVEN BETTER SINCE 2023 IDK WHERE ALL THAT SHIT WENT
 

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Scaredy cat, I also am one but sometimes u just gotta try to talk, even if u say shit, girls might continue the convo. If they continue it's a sign that signal that they appreciate u, continue and figure out if they like u or not.
(super hard, never knew if a girl liked me maybe Yes maybe not idk but I do get a lot of appreciation)
Actually good advice 😭 I thought this obvious
 

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Actually good advice 😭 I thought this obvious
Yeye, overthinking kills u sometimes.

"We suffer much more in imagination than in reality" -Seneca

Personally, whenever I tried to make the first step to talk with girls, it wasn't as bad or weird as I imagined to be.
And even if it is, either it could be funny memories u share with her(if u persevere) or just some embarrassement that will be forgotten.
 

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Yeye, overthinking kills u sometimes.



Personally, whenever I tried to make the first step to talk with girls, it wasn't as bad or weird as I imagined to be.
And even if it is, either it could be funny memories u share with her(if u persevere) or just some embarrassement that will be forgotten.
Holy advice bro do you live on a temple in China and worship Buddha?
 

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Yeye, overthinking kills u sometimes.



Personally, whenever I tried to make the first step to talk with girls, it wasn't as bad or weird as I imagined to be.
And even if it is, either it could be funny memories u share with her(if u persevere) or just some embarrassement that will be forgotten.
Same here I’m not gonna lie im a nervous little fag sometimes but it’s not bad at all even if your a nd jester like Saturday night I was legit talking to a foid I was hanging with about goatis peter scully and other things retards like me think are somewhat humerous and the bitch didn’t care she still let me touch her.
 

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Lmaoo ur right tbh but Idk how to talk when they or i approach them but I remember at a point when I looked really good like it was my prime in 2023 8 girls from my class had a crush on me and they talked to me everyday but I STILL LOOK THE SAME OR EVEN BETTER SINCE 2023 IDK WHERE ALL THAT SHIT WENT
Unfortunate luck, maybe them girls in your class just do not like u.

Also how do you not know how to talk with girls if they did first:banderas:. Best moment to be more eloquent with ppl in general and girls.
Get ur talking game up ndgangy
 

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Unfortunate luck, maybe them girls in your class just do not like u.

Also how do you not know how to talk with girls if they did first:banderas:. Best moment to be more eloquent with ppl in general and girls.
Get ur talking game up ndgangy
Yeah I think so too but if they talk to them abt something important or I need to their nice and make it a convo, abt me not knowing how to talk to girls i mean that I think a million times before i do and cant find something to even talk abt
 

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Holy advice bro do you live on a temple in China and worship Buddha?
Not that holy lol 🤣 but sometimes just doing is better, nothing to lose tbh (even if u could end up in some girls group chat which we prolly already are😔 but fuck ts we gotta be playing to be winning :PepeMoney:)
 

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Im 15M and im 5'8 im one of the tallest in my class I've been looksmaxxing since I was 12 and I just wanna know why I dont get the attention or even friends I worked so hard to get, I've wasted so much time on myself to just get the slightest feeling that I actually exist and now I feel like a look good after all of this pain, But still no attention from girls or even classmates its the same exact same as before not looksmaxxing and maybe worse I dont know what to do, Please if anyone had went through this before tell me your experience.
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I had a similar experience in high school since I am under the average height in my country( i am 175) and so i went to the gym started boxing and i tought that would help. But honestly you should just lower the guard around certain people that you think could be your friends. But it all comes to the respect, you should make them respect you. Only if someone has respect for you can they be your friend
 

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I had a similar experience in high school since I am under the average height in my country( i am 175) and so i went to the gym started boxing and i tought that would help. But honestly you should just lower the guard around certain people that you think could be your friends. But it all comes to the respect, you should make them respect you. Only if someone has respect for you can they be your friend
Your really right and I tried it and it didnt work and thought I was not like them or cringe or wtv but I CANT UNDERSTAND HOW THEY THINK THEIR FUNNY THEY LAUGH AT THE WORD ROMANCE BRO THATS ENOUGH TO SAY CORNBALL,but yeah respect is really important but really hard to earn with some people like my classmates for example
 
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