Now let me get the obvious out of the way, Looks are the most important thing when it comes to relationships in today's dating market but personality also matters more then most people in the BP community like to admit. Looks are what get you in the door, and if your in the door that's 70-80% of the relationship, if your in the door it means she likes you and is willing to date you, but if you don't have that last 20-30%(personality) she wont want to stay with you. Now a lot of people try to use RiRa to disprove that personality matters but my counter to that is although he did bad things, he didn't do those bad things to their partners. Doreen lioy (RiRas wife) truly believed he was a good person which was why she stayed with him, if she wasn't able to trick herself into believing he was innocent I doubt she would have ever even tried to contact him in the first place. Now with that out of the way let me get on to my main point.
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As you can see from this chart the biggest reason for divorce is communication (or lack there of). So now imagine an ultra high inhib guy who ascended, will ascending just magically make his autism go away? Well obviously not, now also take into account if he was a hard core incel from all the time he spent of forums, that also means he probably has some opinions about women that the girls hes trying to date/marry wouldnt like very much. Now you might say he can change or at least pretend like he doesn't think or believe these things, which is true, but you cant keep the act up forever. Lets say this hypothetical guy meets a girl on a dating, firstly he is just a horrible texter/ has horrible conversation, and secondly he is a little sexist, but the girl is willing to look over it given the fact that he is good looking and she cant get a full gauge of his personality through text (an foid gives Chad the benefit of the doubt) so eventually she meets up with him for a date and he manages to act normal and they start dating. Eventually she gonna find out he's an incel or she just gets bored given that fact that he is an autist with no social skills. Sure if you ascend you'll be able to get hook-ups and one night stands no problem, but to keep a long term relationship and to even think about getting married and having kids you need a personality, which unfortunately most of us on this forum don't have.
Sorry if the grammar isn't the bestm, Im a Cormac McCarthy fan and sorry if I sound like a bluepiller, I'm really not, just trying to shut down this cope that personality doesn't matter at all and is 0% in a relation ship.
