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Guide Cold Approaching Women (LOOKS DO CONTRIBUTE)

Archangel Michael

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The trick to succeeding in cold approaching is to approach women that are either 1, 2, or 3 points below you in looks level. And to know your looks level, you basically have to try approaching women you find attractive and then after a couple of months, you can estimate an average and see the type of women that are attracted to you the most, and then you can define which women you need to focus on.

Usually, women who are much uglier than you (4 points below or more) will be so into you that if they are sexually available, they will be extremely interested to have sex with you, so they are another option if you want some free low effort sex. But if you don't want to, you don't have to aim that low.

When people say that it's not possible to succeed in cold approaching because only looks matter, they are right to a certain extent but most women will never approach you, and most men nowadays are too afraid to make the first move so it rarely happens. Often times, when a woman approaches you, it's either because you are way out of her league or she is so promiscuous/slutty that it doesn't matter to her if she gets rejected so you can't rely on being approached.

According to the website "Good Looking Loser", a more realistic Pickup Artist website that doesn't abide by the usual PUA gimmicks, you can expect a 1% success rate for sex in cold approaching as a beginner but only if you aim for women who are either at your level or 1-3 points below you.

And then, your success rate increases as you gain more experience.

Here you can see the odds for getting legit phone numbers and for getting sex based on the woman's attractiveness.
+1, +2 and +3 means 1, 2 and 3 levels above you
0 means your level
-1, -2 and -3 means 1, 2 and 3 levels below you

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And here you can see the odds of succeeding with women based on the number of approaches that you do;

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The "Women per month" number is actually the number of women you can have sex with according to the estimates if you only approach women who are 1 to 3 points below you in looks level. And since it is possible to meet the women again and even develop a fuckbuddy type relationship, you can easily surpass these numbers of sex occurences while being outside of a serious relationship. Imagine having a haram of women to choose from, this is not exclusive to Chad.

And to be considered above average by women, you only need a few features that make you stand out from the average man, like; height, physique, or face. It isn't necessary to be a super model to succeed here since this isn't Tinder, all you need is to be better than average and approach the types of women that I mentioned.

I know that this post isn't very long but for that subject, I know that a lot of you have a lot of arguments which are mostly negative, because you think that it either doesn't work or is exclusive to Chads when in reality, below average women (who aren't necessarily fat but just ugly) have so few options for dating that they will feel very happy if they get approached by a guy who is hotter than them, so they will be more forgiving and it will be easier to get laid with them, and the more experience you get, the better you get at this process of cold approaching, dating and sex. Although some guys are experts at online dating, very few men get laid from cold approaching, not because it's impossible but because they are too afraid to try or they aim too high by approaching only 8s, 9s, and 10s while they are a 5 or a 6 themselves.

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The trick to succeeding in cold approaching is to approach women that are either 1, 2, or 3 points below you in looks level. And to know your looks level, you basically have to try approaching women you find attractive and then after a couple of months, you can estimate an average and see the type of women that are attracted to you the most, and then you can define which women you need to focus on.

Usually, women who are much uglier than you (4 points below or more) will be so into you that if they are sexually available, they will be extremely interested to have sex with you, so they are another option if you want some free low effort sex. But if you don't want to, you don't have to aim that low.

When people say that it's not possible to succeed in cold approaching because only looks matter, they are right to a certain extent but most women will never approach you, and most men nowadays are too afraid to make the first move so it rarely happens. Often times, when a woman approaches you, it's either because you are way out of her league or she is so promiscuous/slutty that it doesn't matter to her if she gets rejected so you can't rely on being approached.

According to the website "Good Looking Loser", a more realistic Pickup Artist website that doesn't abide by the usual PUA gimmicks, you can expect a 1% success rate for sex in cold approaching as a beginner but only if you aim for women who are either at your level or 1-3 points below you.

And then, your success rate increases as you gain more experience.

Here you can see the odds for getting legit phone numbers and for getting sex based on the woman's attractiveness.
+1, +2 and +3 means 1, 2 and 3 levels above you
0 means your level
-1, -2 and -3 means 1, 2 and 3 levels below you

View attachment 3680

And here you can see the odds of succeeding with women based on the number of approaches that you do;

View attachment 3681

The "Women per month" number is actually the number of women you can have sex with according to the estimates if you only approach women who are 1 to 3 points below you in looks level. And since it is possible to meet the women again and even develop a fuckbuddy type relationship, you can easily surpass these numbers of sex occurences while being outside of a serious relationship. Imagine having a haram of women to choose from, this is not exclusive to Chad.

And to be considered above average by women, you only need a few features that make you stand out from the average man, like; height, physique, or face. It isn't necessary to be a super model to succeed here since this isn't Tinder, all you need is to be better than average and approach the types of women that I mentioned.

I know that this post isn't very long but for that subject, I know that a lot of you have a lot of arguments which are mostly negative, because you think that it either doesn't work or is exclusive to Chads when in reality, below average women (who aren't necessarily fat but just ugly) have so few options for dating that they will feel very happy if they get approached by a guy who is hotter than them, so they will be more forgiving and it will be easier to get laid with them, and the more experience you get, the better you get at this process of cold approaching, dating and sex. Although some guys are experts at online dating, very few men get laid from cold approaching, not because it's impossible but because they are too afraid to try or they aim too high by approaching only 8s, 9s, and 10s while they are a 5 or a 6 themselves.

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I usualy go with the classic "do you send"
 

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The trick to succeeding in cold approaching is to approach women that are either 1, 2, or 3 points below you in looks level. And to know your looks level, you basically have to try approaching women you find attractive and then after a couple of months, you can estimate an average and see the type of women that are attracted to you the most, and then you can define which women you need to focus on.

Usually, women who are much uglier than you (4 points below or more) will be so into you that if they are sexually available, they will be extremely interested to have sex with you, so they are another option if you want some free low effort sex. But if you don't want to, you don't have to aim that low.

When people say that it's not possible to succeed in cold approaching because only looks matter, they are right to a certain extent but most women will never approach you, and most men nowadays are too afraid to make the first move so it rarely happens. Often times, when a woman approaches you, it's either because you are way out of her league or she is so promiscuous/slutty that it doesn't matter to her if she gets rejected so you can't rely on being approached.

According to the website "Good Looking Loser", a more realistic Pickup Artist website that doesn't abide by the usual PUA gimmicks, you can expect a 1% success rate for sex in cold approaching as a beginner but only if you aim for women who are either at your level or 1-3 points below you.

And then, your success rate increases as you gain more experience.

Here you can see the odds for getting legit phone numbers and for getting sex based on the woman's attractiveness.
+1, +2 and +3 means 1, 2 and 3 levels above you
0 means your level
-1, -2 and -3 means 1, 2 and 3 levels below you

View attachment 3680

And here you can see the odds of succeeding with women based on the number of approaches that you do;

View attachment 3681

The "Women per month" number is actually the number of women you can have sex with according to the estimates if you only approach women who are 1 to 3 points below you in looks level. And since it is possible to meet the women again and even develop a fuckbuddy type relationship, you can easily surpass these numbers of sex occurences while being outside of a serious relationship. Imagine having a haram of women to choose from, this is not exclusive to Chad.

And to be considered above average by women, you only need a few features that make you stand out from the average man, like; height, physique, or face. It isn't necessary to be a super model to succeed here since this isn't Tinder, all you need is to be better than average and approach the types of women that I mentioned.

I know that this post isn't very long but for that subject, I know that a lot of you have a lot of arguments which are mostly negative, because you think that it either doesn't work or is exclusive to Chads when in reality, below average women (who aren't necessarily fat but just ugly) have so few options for dating that they will feel very happy if they get approached by a guy who is hotter than them, so they will be more forgiving and it will be easier to get laid with them, and the more experience you get, the better you get at this process of cold approaching, dating and sex. Although some guys are experts at online dating, very few men get laid from cold approaching, not because it's impossible but because they are too afraid to try or they aim too high by approaching only 8s, 9s, and 10s while they are a 5 or a 6 themselves.

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The trick to succeeding in cold approaching is to approach women that are either 1, 2, or 3 points below you in looks level. And to know your looks level, you basically have to try approaching women you find attractive and then after a couple of months, you can estimate an average and see the type of women that are attracted to you the most, and then you can define which women you need to focus on.

Usually, women who are much uglier than you (4 points below or more) will be so into you that if they are sexually available, they will be extremely interested to have sex with you, so they are another option if you want some free low effort sex. But if you don't want to, you don't have to aim that low.

When people say that it's not possible to succeed in cold approaching because only looks matter, they are right to a certain extent but most women will never approach you, and most men nowadays are too afraid to make the first move so it rarely happens. Often times, when a woman approaches you, it's either because you are way out of her league or she is so promiscuous/slutty that it doesn't matter to her if she gets rejected so you can't rely on being approached.

According to the website "Good Looking Loser", a more realistic Pickup Artist website that doesn't abide by the usual PUA gimmicks, you can expect a 1% success rate for sex in cold approaching as a beginner but only if you aim for women who are either at your level or 1-3 points below you.

And then, your success rate increases as you gain more experience.

Here you can see the odds for getting legit phone numbers and for getting sex based on the woman's attractiveness.
+1, +2 and +3 means 1, 2 and 3 levels above you
0 means your level
-1, -2 and -3 means 1, 2 and 3 levels below you

View attachment 3680

And here you can see the odds of succeeding with women based on the number of approaches that you do;

View attachment 3681

The "Women per month" number is actually the number of women you can have sex with according to the estimates if you only approach women who are 1 to 3 points below you in looks level. And since it is possible to meet the women again and even develop a fuckbuddy type relationship, you can easily surpass these numbers of sex occurences while being outside of a serious relationship. Imagine having a haram of women to choose from, this is not exclusive to Chad.

And to be considered above average by women, you only need a few features that make you stand out from the average man, like; height, physique, or face. It isn't necessary to be a super model to succeed here since this isn't Tinder, all you need is to be better than average and approach the types of women that I mentioned.

I know that this post isn't very long but for that subject, I know that a lot of you have a lot of arguments which are mostly negative, because you think that it either doesn't work or is exclusive to Chads when in reality, below average women (who aren't necessarily fat but just ugly) have so few options for dating that they will feel very happy if they get approached by a guy who is hotter than them, so they will be more forgiving and it will be easier to get laid with them, and the more experience you get, the better you get at this process of cold approaching, dating and sex. Although some guys are experts at online dating, very few men get laid from cold approaching, not because it's impossible but because they are too afraid to try or they aim too high by approaching only 8s, 9s, and 10s while they are a 5 or a 6 themselves.

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Mirin effort. Also very helpful:pepecheers:
 

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