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Discussion Are looks REALLY everything?

angelo

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There is this one girl I like (I've made posts about it before), I'm not crazy good-looking, but I'm definitely average or slightly above average. This girl states that she doesn't want to talk to me and that "she doesn't have guy friends, which is untrue, as I've seen her talk to guys before. The only thing is that these guys are worse looking than me, not even in a biased outlook; multiple people I know have said the same. Despite all this, she manages to unblock me every few days or weeks and message me again, trying to "solve the problem" of us talking, yet I haven't made contact. It's like she's afraid to talk to me but still wants to? Are her male friends better than me, despite looking worse than me? It feels like this happens too often. This could also just be cope idk, just upset over a foid.
 

6footfakecel

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face > height > frame

these 3 things will determine your life along with location

also jfl you said they are her friends basically she likes keeping them around for attention but isnt attracted to them
 

nomorecope

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Maybe you shouldn’t be worrying about if looks is everything but more abt why you’re upset abt this one girl and how you can stop being upset.

Enough ‘foids’ out there, she can’t be that special. I know when you don’t talk to a lot of females it’s easy to get attached to the few ones that do show interest, but c’mon man keep it moving…
 
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There is this one girl I like (I've made posts about it before), I'm not crazy good-looking, but I'm definitely average or slightly above average. This girl states that she doesn't want to talk to me and that "she doesn't have guy friends, which is untrue, as I've seen her talk to guys before. The only thing is that these guys are worse looking than me, not even in a biased outlook; multiple people I know have said the same. Despite all this, she manages to unblock me every few days or weeks and message me again, trying to "solve the problem" of us talking, yet I haven't made contact. It's like she's afraid to talk to me but still wants to? Are her male friends better than me, despite looking worse than me? It feels like this happens too often. This could also just be cope idk, just upset over a foid.
In reality we live in a world that balances between the three pills (Black, Blue, and Red), the blackpill is lookism which claims looks are the most important metric, red is status, and blue is personality. Depending on your surroundings the balance of each changes. However from what ive found looks have most often been the most important factor and easiest to change to increase smv
 
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